Cut the cabbage in half. Set the middle leaves aside separately. Cut the stalks of the white cabbage into pieces about 1.5" wide.
Separate the white stalks and the leaves. The leaves will soften faster than the stems, so cook them separately.
Slice 8-10 pieces of ginger, peel 7-8 cloves of garlic. Slice 2 to 3 large shiitake mushrooms. (Note 1)
Use scissors to remove the fins and tail of the fish. Cut the fish into 5 equal pieces.
Add sesame oil, ginger slices, and garlic, and do not stir for 2 minutes.
Add the mushrooms and dried shrimp and stir-fry until browned.
Add a tablespoon of satay sauce, and stir-fry for 2 to 3 minutes until fragrant
Add the white stalk of the cabbage, the fish, and the leaves. Cover the pan and simmer over a medium heat.
After 10 minutes of cooking, open the lid and press the leaves under the fish with a spatula.
The leaves are ready to eat when they are soft.